youth ministry

Learning How to Talk by Father Nicholas Andruchow

Learning How to Talk by Fr. Nicholas Andruchow (p

This summer, we are preparing to receive over 700 missionaries who will serve in Tijuana. The continuing courage and zeal that the Orthodox demonstrate from America are not just encouraging but inspiring. All those who come will receive a lesson in life: how good we have it in America and how God is calling us to share the goods we have. 

This summer’s Homebuilding theme is “Learning from on high”. We are challenging all the summer participants to look up to God and be taught. Jesus is the ultimate “Maestro” (Maestro is word for teacher in Spanish) and through the sacrifice of helping the suffering at the border, we are all enlightened.

Beginning to Pray

Bishop Anthony Bloom writes in his book “Beginning to Pray” that we all need to be aware that God does not always talk back we when cry out to Him. Despite this fact, we all still need to talk to God. Therefore, ask Him for help. Tell Him you are grateful for what you have. Tell Him you are sorry for the mistakes you have made. This is where we must start. Learn to talk to God! 

Finish every day with a conversation with Jesus. Here on the 16-acre ranch where you will stay when building a home for a family in need, you will have 15 minutes of quiet time with God each morning. Here, you will look up to the heavens and the Lord will teach you, and the unexpected will happen. He will bless you with a fresh perspective of what is really important, which is our relationship with Him.

The End Result

Ultimately, we want our relationship with Jesus to grow. I recently read that we should desire to want to spend all our time with God. We should get excited about talking about Him and when we think of Him, we should be filled with joy and excitement. Recently I became a grandfather. It is a truly blessing and it gave me a wider perspective of how I should love Jesus. I love talking about my grandson, when I think about him, I get excited and I can’t wait to see him again. 

This is how it should be with Jesus. So let us be proactive and look to the heavens to learn how to love God. We invite you to come to Mexico and the lessons from on high will open your eyes and you will speak sweet words to the One we love, the Lord Jesus.

In the Spirit of Light by Father Demetrios Swanson

In the Spirit of Light by Fr. Demetrio Swanson

There is a story about a visitor to Mt. Athos who came across a monk building a large stone wall. As the visitor observed the monk, he began to doubt that the wall could ever be finished. He said this to the monk. The monk replied that it mattered not in the least if he ever finished, because someone after him could do it. More importantly, he said, God had allowed him to labor in this part and it was his blessing to do that. The rest was up to God. It is God’s. 

I was expressing to someone recently the strong feeling that “things are not as they should be”. This is that same awe at the immensity of a task like that stone wall that cannot be finished. We might also experience this feeling toward the growing darkness in the world around us. Maybe we feel that everything is falling apart and we cannot keep the pieces up. What can we do? 

St. Porphyrios says: “Forget the darkness. Leave it alone. Fill yourself with Light, and the darkness loses its very existence. Water the Good and the evil withers from neglect.”

St. Seraphim of Sarov says, “Acquire the Spirit of Peace and thousands around you will be saved.”

So, what can we do? Focus on doing what we are supposed to do today, right now, and leave the rest up to God. It’s His. Focus on our current task, the simple things we are supposed to do moment by moment, and leave the rest up to God. I love the Greek saying, “Exei O Theos,” or, “God has it.”

This is the way of the saints, the way of that monk on Mt. Athos building the wall. 

There is a priest I heard about who would end every day with the prayer: “My Lord, I have done everything I can for Your Church today. But it is Your Church, and I’m going to bed.” I modify this slightly and usually end my day saying, “My Christ, in my weakness I have done everything I can for Your Church today. But it is Your Church, and I’m going to bed.” 

What does all this mean? It is all Christ’s. We do our part, we do what we are supposed to day by day and then we see the miracles of God, the perfect working of all things, our humble labors being transformed. Our nothing, our many “zeros” of effort turn into millions when God places a “one” in front of all the seeming “nothing” we have done. That is from St. Paisios. 

This orphanage is God’s. This chapel is God’s. This new temple we are building in Rosarito is God’s. This “ranch” community and neighborhood is God’s. This building of homes is God’s.

It is all His. 

As the resident priest I encourage all of us to make a good effort to do our tasks given us each day, and then let it go. Finish our tasks, our battle each day, and take refuge in the Lord of the tasks. The Lord of everything. 

Who loves us.

 

Opportunities in Youth Ministry TELOS

Our friends at the TELOS Project are looking for young, service-minded individuals to join the 2025 Cohort.

The Telos Project partners with parishes across the country to inspire and fuel young adult engagement in parish life. Telos offers coaching, education, and design thinking to help your parish develop ministry with and for young adults.

Parishes who work with Telos have seen:

  • A growing community of young adults supporting each other

  • Relationships developed across generations

  • Increased presence of young adults in worship and other parish ministries

  • Spiritual growth of young adults

  • An increase of young adults taking on leadership roles in the parish